No one can heal you. The apology you're waiting for won't heal you. The pain he/she/they inflicted upon you won't be undone. The words he/she/they said to you won't be unsaid.
Healing happens when YOU decide that your pains will be a chapter in the story, but not define the main character of the story. You don't need to erase your pains. They cannot be undone. But the way you view yourself through these pains can be shifted.
Are you a warrior? Are you unstoppable? Are you resilient?
Because chances are, if you've had pain inflicted upon you, you are all those things. Your pain made you them. Not the person who inflicted the pain, but the person you became because of the trauma.
SHE is who you focus on. That badass bitch warrior who rises above again and again. Who shows the world kindness when people have tried to break her over and over. Who has lost so much, maybe even everything, and who cries on the floor and then rises and builds again.
She doesn't look back at her pain and let it define her. She looks back at her pain so she can see how far she's come.
Her lowest is what creates the beauty of her highs. Her trauma creates her triumph. Her aching creates her loving heart. The things she's lost become the things that make her whole.
She is a beautiful goddess because she knows in her soul that nothing... not one moment... not one person... not one trauma... has the power over her own power.
There may be times where she let others have power, but she continues to reclaim her own power and move forward again and again.
She is fierce, brave and kind-hearted. And a woman like that is un-fucking-stoppable.
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